#8 Playing The Good Guy Card

You know when you meet a woman you find attractive, and you say something along the lines of “I’m a nice guy, you can trust me”?

Do yourself a favor, and leave that line in your head. Here’s why: it implies that she has had to deal with several no good guys, which frankly, you might not know anything about, so making that kind of judgment is a little off putting. You don’t know her, not really. You don’t know what she has, or hasn’t been through, not exactly.

Plus, maybe she isn’t even thinking about whether you’re a good or bad guy. Maybe she’s not even that invested yet. You reminding her that you’re a “good guy” makes her question whether you really are… or if you’re a psycho in disguise. Don’t put her on guard!