#4 Not Making Eye Contact

Here’s the thing, you know how men find it… confrontational when you make a ton of eye contact with each other during a conversation? Well, it’s the opposite for women.

Two men holding a conversation like to deviate their eyes a lot, often looking at passing strangers, buildings, objects in the room, whatever else other than each other. Sure, they might look at each other here and there, but it’s never… constant.

When a man speaks to a woman, however, that eye contact needs to be there. It doesn’t mean you need to look at her like you’re staring into her soul (creepy), it means you just need to nod, look up at her, and let her know you’re listening. It is a sign of respect and willingness to hold a conversation.